when they share their time with you, or give you their time, they feel you both gain time, because goals were achieved
@lesterkan Says:
This is a very insightful comment.
@friedensvorbereitendemedien Says:
Here in Germany nobody never has time for nothing!
No time to listen, no time to talk, no time to join each other for dinner, no time to call, no time to visit, no time to ask no time to stay, no time for understanding and no time to care.
I think that is the main issue in our western society, because if you have no time to think, to reflect and to answer open questions, to think about ambiguities and so to develop an understanding for each other, that leads to maximal Immaturity (as we can see on every western corner).
How could we develop an understanding for each other through listening if we have no time to listen? How could we really learn, if we have no time to receive all the infos?
Most of my fellow people have not even time for reading, for digging deeper into any toppic.
The question is: What are they actually doing in their time? Where does the time of my fellow western human beings disappear to?
1. they constantly have appointments on their mind that put them in a permanent state of anxiety and stress. In this state of stress, their head is full of upcoming appointments.
2 In addition, their head is full of complexes, which they have been told mainly by multimedia, but also by their teachers and other people, which is why their head is also full of inhibitions and self-doubt. which is why they pretend not to have time so as not to be seen as stupid. It is also considered desirable to be fully booked in terms of time, which is why many make themselves scarce for reasons of status in order to demonstrate how important and successful they are. Anyone who has time is considered a loser, is considered to be dependent, lost and is hardly respected by anyone. Making yourself scarce is considered a virtue in the West. Waiting for others to make the first move is also considered a virtue, silence and staying out of everything is wrongly equated with wisdom.
3. they have learnt not to share their thoughts with their fellow human beings, but only to talk about completely superficial things, and tend to keep all real problems and unanswered questions to themselves, so when they do talk, they only talk about superficial things anyway, so they tend to play games with each other, which has led to many of them no longer seeing any real point in talking.
no longer see any real point in making time for anyone at all.
4. furthermore, their schedules are crammed with endless free time programmes, all of which have one thing in common, namely that people pay little attention to each other, but instead silently watch a cinema screen, TV or their smartphone, while their fellow human beings have become increasingly alien to them as a result, there are hardly any places and hardly any opportunities in our western society to give each other time.
5. in most western media formats, it has been increasingly propagated for generations that it is chic to play tricks on each other, to annoy each other, to take the piss out of each other, to make fun of each other, to ridicule each other and to prank each other.
In sitcoms in particular, TV viewers have been highly encouraged to adopt these hurtful behaviours, which is why many people nowadays in the west have no desire to spend time with someone who will anyway only make fun of you, be rude, mean, puts you down and ridicules everything anyway, and it is considered cool to be as dismissive, arrogant and ignorant as possible, and such people dominate almost every small group in our western society.
6. the western education system, especially in Germany, virtually prevents successful interaction, we have had to spend our lives in silence because there is always a foreign programme running (at school, at work, on tv) that we must, should or may follow, which is why we have completely forgotten how to listen to each other, how to be kind to eachother and pay any healthy attention. We only learned to pay sick attention to each other all the more, just as we learnt in point 5 from "Al Bundy", "Rosanne", Bill Cospy, the Nanny, reality soaps and incountable asocial-media-stars.
Based on my findings on the subject of "human maturity", I postulate that this is a weapon system implemented in our western, capitalist education system, which keeps people in an STATE OFIMMATURITY due to the lack of opportunity and AQUIRED inability to interact HUMANE with each other, in order to maximise our exploitation as human capital, because without successful interaction with each other, people become relative strangers to each other, develop no understanding for each other, can easily be incited against each other, played off against each other and made afraid of each other, are simply to be frightened and intimidated with the result that they are never again able to form an HARMONIC unit, no longer communicate correctly, no longer perceive each other and hardly understand each other because everyone speaks their own language.
The speechlessness that results is what makes people sick, mentally confused, mentally broken and bitter, so I am infinitely glad that you are addressing this issue. Thank you CGTN, I love your programmes so much because you promote exactly this maturity in your viewers, which is prevented in favour of education for maximum immaturity in the vast majority of Western formats.
💕 Thank you CGTN 💕
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